Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking

Read this at 32 and I get it. I hope this book will help others as it helped me. Great book

This book is a must have for all men and women at any age. The principles and value systems in this book are nothing but honesty and letting your partner or stranger of interest know what your interests or desires are. We are in a society where Men and Women play too many mind games on another to get an edge over the other and have a certain amount of power in those games. There are so many games being played, its common practice and a "norm". The point where telling a woman what you REALLY want, seems "bad guy" type and even "rude". This is sad. This should not be how relationships should be handled. Why cant people say yes or no to a persons reach for connection? This book absolutely breaks down why. It all comes down to being honest with yourself and others. Reading this book multiple times will help you adopt this mindset and truly see the light when it comes to dating. Overall, not only do I recommend this book to change your life, I also recommend these books that align the same ideas and mindsets you NEED to adapt in order to survive in the dating world that we live in. Trust me, your paradigms WILL be shifted. -No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover = A breakdown of the generation of so called "Nice Guys" and why Nice Guys are not successful in many areas of life. -What Women Want in a Man by Bruce Bryans = A short and sweet book about what triggers a woman to be feminine around men. Absolutely informative and when reading it, you will have many "ohhh" moments. -The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer = A book on spirituality that teaches you to be present (very important to be present when approaching women), not caring what others think of you, how to be aware of your thoughts, and overall inner peace. THIS IS GOLD! -Upfront and Straightforward by Alan Roger Currie = The sequel to Mode One. This time, he breaks down the motives and beliefs behind Manipulative women and men. More so on the women side because in today's society, women play great mind games (Wholesome Pretenders and Erotic Hypocrites) and why you should be the man and not be afraid of these women. I recommend this last because you must TRULY READ MODE ONE MULTIPLE TIMES TO GRASP THE COMPLETE BASIS AND IDEOLOGIES OF IT!!

I was fortunate enough to learn of Mode One by hearing it briefly mentioned as recommended reading by Rollo Tomassi. That’s high praise. After reading this book, I’m genuinely surprised I don’t hear it mentioned more often in the Manosphere of YouTube channels and blogs. It’s an excellent book. I feel every young man should have this knowledge. This is not a silly book about PUA tricks, but way of building confidence and not getting abused by women. I see the lesson of Mode One similar to Jordon Peterson’s lesson of not being low on the Dominance hierarchy. Grow a pair of balls, communicate exactly what you want, don’t be weak and don’t let other people’s criticism shake your confidence. As an older man with multiple attempts - and failures - under my belt, I immediately recognized I’ve been in modes 2 & 3 most of my life and that the problem lies with me, not with the women. Its the way I was raised & the disingenuous story we’re all told growing up about being a gentleman and that we must fawn over women and put them on a pedestal to win their affection. This book dispels all that garbage. Much like the subject of the book, Mode One is written in a simple, straightforward manner and is a relatively quick and easy read. You can tell Alan Currie lives what he preaches by his writing style. He gets right to the point and every chapter, every paragraph and every sentence is clear and concise. No ambiguity. Very refreshing in contrast to Rollo Tomassi or Jordon Peterson’s writing style. No examples of how these conversations should go are provided in the book. The implicit message is: overcome your fear, immediately approach women you’re attracted to, express your genuine intentions, and don’t let her reaction shake your confidence. Over time, you’ll learn what works and what doesn’t. The point is to take action and do it.

This was a good read and insightful into how effective direct communication can be in this area of your life. I actually used the direct communication Curry talks about in this book, and it does work remarkably well. Why? I can only say that there are too many men in society who try to pussy-foot-it with women, and truly can't speak their mind, or say what it is they desire with a woman to her face. When a women hears these types of overt honest advancements, they may laugh nevously, be speechless and taken-aback, shook, or criticize you hard. But after that they'll be wanting to typically honor your requests because you have been so bold and honest. While I may not agree with the vulgarity Currie sometimes suggests using, I can say this method of communication is real, and frankly a lot more honest than most men are in today's society - and that is precisely why it's VERY EFFECTIVE. I wish I had time to leave a better review, but I am getting ready for dinner. Alan thank you for writing this book, hopefully we'll cross paths one day so I can thank you. I hope this book finds its way into the hands of more readers so more guys out there are successful. Get this book and I would also suggest checking out David X Dating as well. Don't mess around with anything but these two guys if you are looking to get better with women. Bottom line, this book will help you to establish a sexual relationship, find a partner, etc. if you do what it says.

I thought that I was a player. I thought that I knew everything about men, women, and relationships. Boy; I was wrong. One day, I ‘Googled’ “why do women never say exactly what they feel” and Alan Roger Currie’s show on blogtalkradio.com came up. I listened to “The basics of manipulative head games 101 evaluating manipulative men and women,” and my life instantly changed. I knew that what I knew was not enough and actually, I knew nothing, and I wanted hard to change that. That same day I purchases the entire mode one audiobooks trilogy and went hard into learn mode. Later, I bought the books. Alan will teach you how to be real, honest, and get past your insecurities. He will help you have better relationships and interactions with people in general. Both men and women can enjoy the book, but it is primarily for men. After reading and learning MODE ONE, I can guarantee that you will have better relationship and will most likely never have a horrible dating experience, for if you follow Alan's advice, you will already know what you need to know about the person that you are interested in so that you will never waste time and money trying to get to know if you have a vibe with someone(what a long sentence). If I could afford to buy this book for all men and women and make it a prerequisite for starting relationships, I would. There are few books or authors that have impacted my life the way that MODE ONE has. I could say so much more. If you are ready to read/hear the truth and be truthful to yourself and others, then this is the book for you. If you want to keep playing the game, lying to yourself and others, please pass this up. It will only shatter your world.

Mode One is a milestone in philosophy and in humanities. The book is beyond the subject of seduction. As far as the pick up artist community, I regard Mode One as the foundation for all the books and multi-media on the subject whether they came before, after Mode One and the ones to come. The truth behind the pages of this book is true to any time in the history of this planet and will transcend time itself. Roger Allan Currie is a genius, truly an illustrious person ahead of our time. He is very pragmatic, and I think any area of study is as good as it is useful. This book is a life safer! Mode One is not an invention of a phenomena in the area of seduction. It is more an observation of the laws at work in this field. These laws have always been at work, and Currie is merely pointing them out with his brilliant mind. Mode One can be compared to Sun Tzu, THE ART OF WAR. The truth behind these two books can be applied to just about any area of life for greater efficiency and results. I am truly privileged to have found the book back in 2009 among the zillions in the market. I remember getting home on a Saturday at 2 am and noticing the book had arrived in the mail. I was so intrigued that I read the book in one sitting. I was left in awe and felt a sense of enlightenment after reading the book. I sought the email of Currie online, and I was lucky to have found it. I emailed Currie telling him how great the book was and to my surprise I got a response from him shortly after. Thanks Currie!

I discovered this book after being in the seduction 'community' for almost 2 years. During those two years I spent a lot of time working on my 'indirect' game as taught by Mystery and Style. I saw some success in my relationships with girls when applying these principles but it never felt congruent or REAL to who I am as a person. Reading Mode One changed my perception COMPLETELY. It's premise is that manipulation begets manipulation. The only way to avoid being manipulated, is to stop trying to be manipulative yourself. By manipulation I mean 'running game' on a girl in the manner that most PUA's teach...i.e. DHV stories, kino escalation, magic tricks, palm reading and other manipulative gambits that seek to 'higher your value' and create a false sense of confidence when deep down you have none. Girls have a keen sense when it comes to sniffing out the BS, she'll know if you have TRUE confidence or not. These 'indirect' methods may yield results but are inherently WEAK and are not sustainable in the long run. The bottom line is this, woman want men with CONFIDENCE AND BALLS. If you are direct, upfront and provocatively straight forward FROM THE WORD GO, then you disarm any woman from manipulating a man by allowing him to string her along on an endless series of dinner/coffee/movie dates that normally fizzle out into nothingness, that leave you feeling robbed of your time and money. All that effort to build 'comfort' with a woman so that she can rationalise having sex with the guy when THE WHOLE TIME she new from the first minute whether she would have sex with him or not. Manipulation. For a guy, this mindset will help you weed out the time wasting, gold digging manipulative woman out there and conversely help you secure the romantic and sexual companionship of woman who are truly emancipated, that 'get it'. It's not a pick-up book, it's a mindset and a philosphy, if you've been delving into mainstream PUA content (most of which is all about indirect game), then this is the book that will make you GROW SOME BALLS and go direct and never look back again. Mode one baby...make it happen!

This book is for the man who grew up without a father, was ostracized by his brothers(think Joseph from the Bible)- yet, always knew he was that guy(chosen to do great things). This book will help restore the boldness, honesty and confidence you once had in yourself as a young boy. This time, you will be better than ever before!

Alan R Currie directly directs you on how to be direct with your intentions with women; the end result, no bitterness, no fear of rejection and no manipulation directed towards you from women, aka mode 1. The book is straight to the point with gold nuggets that when absorbed and implemented will dramatically change your interactions with women, if you suffer from being your honest self towards women, a must read.

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A lot of men on the internet today don’t take complete responsibility for their failures with women, and that’s where Alan puts the mirror up and tells you to take a good look. Most men are quick to complain about women’s behaviour, but really and truly in all of your relationships with women (or lack thereof), there’s one common denominator: YOU. And that’s what Alan focuses most on in this book. He cites legends like the late Dr Stephen Covey for inspiration and shows you why you should mainly focus on two things in your interactions with women: - How you behave towards women. - How you ALLOW them to behave towards you. No pointing the finger at the opposite sex once you realise you’re the one in control. I realised quickly that most of my life (as of most men in society) I was taught to operate in a manner which places women on a pedestal and leaves me frustrated because of the disingenuous behaviour I was exhibiting towards women interacted with. He breaks everything down so simply and it’s truly refreshing (and exhilarating) when you realise the power you have once you take action. This book will improve your relationships and interactions with women TENFOLD. If you’re brave enough to be a man and exhibit your balls and backbone in a world which is trying to strip them away from you in real time, you’ll be rewarded highly in form of respect from the women you interact with. And it’s better to be respected than liked, especially when the latter does nothing for the benefit of your romantic, social and sexual interactions with women. Highly recommended for any man, regardless of your age. As the late great ARC used to chant: MOOOOOOOODE OOOOOOONE 🗣️

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