We're Pregnant! The First Time Dad's Pregnancy Handbook

When we found out we were expecting, I quickly realized there was a lot I didn’t know. Most of the pregnancy information we came across was understandably geared toward moms, so I wanted something that explained things from a dad’s perspective without making it overly complicated. This book was exactly what I was looking for. I really liked how it breaks the pregnancy down into manageable sections instead of throwing everything at you at once. I could read along as the pregnancy progressed and get an idea of what was happening, what was coming next, and most importantly, what I could actually do to support my partner. It’s informative without feeling like a textbook. There were plenty of little things I wouldn’t have thought to ask about or prepare for on my own, and I found myself bringing up things I had read with my partner afterward. What I appreciated most was simply feeling more involved and prepared. Pregnancy can feel like unfamiliar territory when it’s your first child, and having something written specifically with dads in mind helped take away some of that uncertainty. If you’re becoming a dad for the first time and have absolutely no idea what you’re doing yet, welcome to the club. This is a pretty good place to start.

Adrian Kulp’s book manages to be both informative and entertaining. It’s well-organized to help fathers who are in the heart of the process, figure out their role during pregnancy and in the first months after birth. At the same time, it’s clever, funny and artistically beautiful. My kids are 4 and 5 years old, and we don’t plan to have any more (well, I don’t plan to, which is probably not the most important factor). So in one sense, I’m not necessarily the target audience here. But I enjoyed it anyway because it brought back memories I had forgotten. I can also attest to the accuracy of some of the advice that I wish I had heeded. There are numerous examples, but one that stands out is the necessary conversation about who you want in the delivery room – the friends and family dilemma that we didn’t address and should have. I love the various metaphors the author uses, including numerous analogies to sporting events; e.g. comparing the second trimester to running out the clock in a football game. I also enjoyed the “brownie points” section in many of the chapters, which detail some things I just didn’t know about during my wife’s pregnancies and after; a push gift and bra shopping are a few examples. I’m sure there have been books written from the Dad’s perspective. I don’t think there have been any books that put it all together this well. It’s a very busy and frankly overwhelming time, and you’re really flying blind a bit especially with your first child. A guide that’s easy to use and actually enjoyable, is something all new dads should have. And for those who have closed shop, if you’re looking to feel some nostalgia and be entertained at the same time, this book is a great choice as well.

this book so far is better than ANY book geared towards moms or first time parents. we are first time parents, and this book has been extremely informative whilst being funny and relatable. the books I've read/listened to that are geared towards moms are... kind of scary honestly. i find myself second guessing symptoms because of a stupid book, instead of being stress free, which is what expectant mommies need. also, most "first time mom" books i've read paint a male partner as a worthless dummy with a penis. my husband isn't dumb, he's just not properly informed. this book fills in ALL of the gaps we BOTH need, and leaves out any and all fear mongering. we are reading chapters by the weeks of pregnancy. i find it also validates the things that other books have failed to do. at week 4, it states "the exhaustion mom is feeling is REAL" and suggests daddy to pick up mommy's chores for the time being. this made me feel SO good because i sort of felt like i wasn't properly contributing to the household, but was too exhausted to pitch in like i normally do. i highly HIGHLY recommend this book to ANYONE who needs to be properly educated without being scared to death about "potential complications". my husband is wonderful, but sometimes i find him standing around like a sim without commands. this book helps let him know week by week how he can contribute towards OUR pregnancy. it gives him the power and confidence he needs to contribute without ME ordering him around [honestly, i'm too tired and hormonal to even do that, and i know other moms would be too]. I can't praise this book enough. GET IT NOW! :)

Huge flaw right away. Lol it says at "9 weeks" we are in the 3rd month and leaving the 1st trimester. If you were 9 weeks you'd have 3 weeks left in the first trimester and are only considered 2 months and 1 week along not 3 months.. Anyway It has helped my husband realize more what Im going through which I appreciate. I wish it accounted more for bloating in early pregnancy, and what foods the woman should avoid and have that more prevalent throughout the book. My husband is trying and I'm having a hard time eating due to aversions. He brought home and made a charcuterie board and was everything i couldn't eat. Deli meats, unpasturized soft cheeses and olives ( which i did eat the olives) . He's absolutely phenomenal at the support lately. This was the only "not boring" black and white plain book I could find that can make following your wife/partner more fun and easier to follow week by week.

Short weekly chapters. Easy to understand. Written from the dad’s perspective.

Great book, very informative. My fiancé really likes it

Amaze, amaze, amaze! As a first-time dad-to-be, this book has been my Sherpa and every day companion on the amazing journey of momma's pregnancy. Adrian, my bud, you have done an excellent job in helping me anticipate my wife's needs! I feel so prepared and ahead of the game. Many times I've gotten the "why yes! did your book tell you that?' when I've asked a perfectly timed question about what she may be experiencing that week. But, even better, this book isn't just about informing you as to what momma is going through that week - it's about what WE can do to help support her in this journey. I like to highlight and scribble on books, and this one has more markings than a toddlers's coloring book 😆 I cannot recommend this book enough. As the book says: "Women become mothers the moment they find out they're pregnant, and most men become fathers when they first hold their babies for the first time — but there are nine months in between" and correctly points out that it doesn't have to be that way if we take ownership from the beginning ✨

Super informative and engaging. My wife is currently pregnant with our first kid and I read one chapter a week to follow along with her pregnancy. I appreciate that it’s broken up by weeks so I can stretch the reading out. It adds to that feeling I love that I’m on the journey with her.

This was a fantastic read and I recommend it to any first time dads. This book provided me with great insight into what my partner is going through and what to expect. Gives you lists to follow during certain milestones. It was very helpful. Calmed her to know certain things that are happening are normal. Will be recommending this to every first time dads I talk to.

I ordered this book for my husband to be able to get an insight into the pregnancy and what I was going through and it was absolutely brilliant. It is very informative with plenty of facts, he loves the week by week countdown to the pregnancy and the helpful hints of what he can be doing to help me and help us prepare together. All the other father books I tried were quite patronising or seemed to be aimed at young dads or unwilling dads but this was is perfect - highly recommend it!

Amazing book! Every step along the way the pregnancy very funny and detailed described. My partner loves it.

This book describes the major events in pregnancy, week by week. It also includes a fourth trimester section. It was really nice having this book because it describes how the baby evolves but also what the mum is going through and some tips for the helpful father. All in plain language, very easy to follow, and you can literally read each chapter every week.

Vera good