Love & Obey: The World's Best Female Led Relationship Guide Paperback – March 22, 2018

This book has really helped me with understanding a new world of a Female Led Life. It brings home the necessary thought processes behind a healthy none demeaning relationship. My husband and I are new to this and I am not one to take pleasure from hurting people or making them feel weak. He is supposed be a partner and provider not a plaything and this book proves it’s possible to have a Female led relationship that doesn’t have to be BDSM. I am now looking more closely at how I present myself and what he responds better with. I definitely need more work but this goes a long way with how to start. Thank you!

I bought this for my girlfriend but she said she wasn't interested in FLR. So I took it out of her present, but she saw it laying around and and asked about it. I told her why I took it out and she said she would like to read it anyway. Ever since then she's been treating me a whole lot better. I don't know what this author wrote but it worked!

As a longtime advocate of female led relationships, I basically support every new book on the topic. My hope is that, at some point real soon, enough critical mass will be reached for FLRs to become mainstream in popular culture (as I believe they already are behind closed doors). But this new introductory book deserves special note because the author not only advocates strongly for FLRs, explaining the romantic and sexual benefits to both male and female, but also makes a convincing case that FLRs are not even slightly “weird” or “offbeat,” but actually in harmony with the basic natures of men and women.She goes into considerable depth on this, in terms of biology and psychology, which I obviously can’t do justice to. But her ultimate conclusion, in terms of male psychology, sure rings true with me. She writes that “all men secretly desire to have a supreme queen in their life.” Why is that strange? When the mother-son link is the original and most intimate any guy will ever have? Based on this, Ms. Rudder advises women who want to lead their boyfriends or husbands down the FLR path to incorporate a heavy dose of maternal love in their training.I’m pretty sure she’s right about this, and I hope she’s also right in some of her other thoughts about the growth of FLRs in our culture. Like this one: “Female Led Relationships will become the next major movement.” And this one: “The revolution to a female-led world is happening one household at a time.”I have a slight criticism, which is that most of the book’s advice is slanted toward women readers. That said, it’s well thought out and succinct—i.e., boiled down to basic rules and principles, all embedded in male psychology. You can find similar guidelines in other “how-to” FLR books. But Ms. Rudder offers a service you probably won’t find elsewhere. She provides her own experienced counseling to couples just starting out on the FLR path, or those who are encountering obstacles.All in all, an important contribution to the expanding literature on Female Led.

I was a proponent of female led relationships before I read this book and I think Rudder does a great job laying out all the reasons why the Woman is in the best position to lead a relationship and a family. Trust in your Woman and empower her to take the lead and nurture your relationship and you won't be disappointed!Though the authors I've read on this subject all have their own wrinkles in their approach, I thought her advice on building a female led relationship was solid and practical. I think it is written emphasizing the basics that will resound with a broader audience. Great read and I look forward to more works from her!

This is a really good read for women looking to be introduced to the Female-led lifestyle. The author (Marisa) articulates her points really well, and gently [but frankly] takes the reader on a journey into FLR. Great book!

This book is almost unreadable and unusable. It makes a lot of sweeping observations about large swaths of the population and makes a lot of weird unfounded claims about psychology and society.It reads a lot more like a watered down SCUM manifesto than an actual guide on how to deal with the unique challenges that present to female-led relationships, which is not what it says on the tin.Even if I did want to know about female powerbases in society, it doesn't do a great job at that either; It uses the same kind of pseudoscience and weird masturbatory observations we could expect from the Incel/redpill community: Citing female action heroes in movies as a sign we are becoming more matriarchal or that Hillary Clinton was allowed to run for president.It's just weird and intellectually dishonest, and even if I hadn't found a guide on how to exist as in a marginalized lifestyle or make that lifestyle work, I would have been pleasantly surprised to find a well-researched study of female-led organizations or subcultures within our society. Unfortunately, this is neither.

Great information and insights for any relationship. However, it is no more than a brochure which does not justify a cost of $19.99.

This is a great read and the truth of a man and woman’s role in life and relationships. Marisa Rudder nails the essence of how a woman should control her man and how and why a man should be submissive to his partner.

This was/is a mind blower for me……submission is the way! Give all the power to her and then no worries!

This is fantastic because it celebrates female power in a way men can participate. It does not demonize or compartmentalize her sexual power nor her right to use it. Nor does it limit her power to the bedroom. What are her limits? She decides.

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Beginners book for starting a FLR. Everyone can learn something about relationships. Makes for interesting reading and worth giving it a go.