How to Be a 3% Man, Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams Paperback – January 22, 2006

If you know you know. If you're buying this book, it's likely because you're watching the videos and finally wizened up to listen to the advice. BUY IT. I'm admittedly on just my 5th read as I achieved my goals within the first few reads, but now years into a relationship I find myself revisiting the guide which I thought I didn't need as much as I was recommended by Corey but like I said, if you know you know. If this is making sense to you then congratulations, you're on your way to becoming the best version of yourself and meeting your own goals, "no matter" what they may be. I've recommended this book endlessly to friends and buddies that fall into the same tired traps that we men do, but like you, they think they all know better and go about it the same tired ways, ending the same tires way every time. Like they say, you can lead a horse to water..

Married for over 20 years, widowed, and entered the dating world. I had a reasonable idea about being a good man, but no idea about women.My first relationship introduced me to Corey's YouTube videos and she downloaded this and his other book Mastering Yourself onto Audible and we listened to them together. I realised after I had broken it off with her that she knew it intimately and had been quietly trying to guide me.I decided there was real value in the information and I needed to take it seriously and apply it if I wanted to achieve my goals. I listened to it time after time after time until now I know a lot of it off by heart and have absorbed a lot of it into who I am, but still listen to it to not lose track.Long story short it has changed my relationships remarkably and exactly as Corey describes. Men respect me much more and quality women want me more, they just started falling out of the sky all around me. I couldn't do the numbers game he recommends but just quietly pursued my passions, made my list, interacted with lots of women, and waited with my eyes open. I am now with a beautiful, young, intelligent, wise, and feminine woman, who repeatedly tells me I am so different to any other man she's been with and loves the xyza out of me, just as Corey says.I've since bought copies of the book for young men around me, telling them of my experience and the power of self development books, and this one in particular for becoming a good, strong, man and finding a wonderful mate, and how I wish I'd had it when I was younger as it would have helped immensely with my marriage and life.It's easy to criticise the language Corey uses, or the presentation or editing of the book, or think it is a superficial and cynical road map for seducing and discarding women, but if you are serious about becoming a good, strong man who is in the 3% and wanting to find yourself a similarly high quality mate, or a woman who wants to understand relationships also, do what Corey says and read it at least 10 - 15 times, absorb it into your being, and live it, and in time you will deliver for yourself what he describes.Thanks Corey for doing this for us.

So yes, I am an outwardly looking very feminine gay woman, but with a masculine leaning mind who has struggled in my relationships with other gay women. I tend to prefer women who are more emotionally feminine than myself and hence the struggle. After reading this book, I can already see the mistakes that I have made in my dating life (e.g., buying gifts for women much too early when dating, getting anxious when dating them early in the process and demonstrating needy behaviors, becoming insecure with myself especially with highly attractive women when dating them, being taken advantage of by women who just want me to spend money on them). I used to think the women I date, especially the very attractive ones, were playing games with me when they pulled away. I did not realize that their behaviors were normal and a "test" of my emotional strength and I suffered emotionally during these times. There are few if any books out there that directly cater to gay women with more masculine emotional characteristics (at least I have not found any). While this book is not written for gay women, it nevertheless really helped me to understand the dating process as a gay woman myself in this unique emotional category. I found Wayne's discussion toward the end of his book on "masculine-feminine" polarities in dating extremely helpful as so few people discuss this important polarity dynamic in romantic relationships. I will read this book over many times and I am hopeful that it will help me in my dating and romantic life for many years to come.