How to Have an Orgasm . . . As Often As You Want: Life-Changing Sexual Secrets for Women and Their Partners

A bit out of date. Some good information overall. Helps with your own mind getting in the way and to own your own sexuality.

so-so

Extremely helpful instructions. Clear and easy to follow. And IT WORKS!!! Even for a 54 year old woman. Really a must read!!!

It was a good book!! The author gave me more information about myself which is very helpful in achieving an organism.

It takes too long to get to the important topic. Too many stories that are not important. Not intimate but selfish. I think its helpful for people who never had an orgasm. But for people who do know how and have a partner it is not as good.

i did learn a few things in here

Pretty bulls***, especially the jade egg stuff. Keep looking for others better.

Thanks!

I'm launching into my review prematurely, because I've only reached page 34, but I am already finding this book immensely frustrating. It is an OLD book. It was published in 1993, over 25 years ago, and worse than that, the author straightway launches into a discussion of her experiences with her first boyfriends - in the 1960s! I'm no spring chicken. I remember the early 1990s. I do not remember the 60s. The world is a different place now. It shouldn't be surprising that the author, still mentally influenced by a time now nearly 60 years ago, completely takes for granted that 'women' are all cis and heterosexual. It's understandable but still jarring in 2019 to read a work so closedminded, but I suppose you can't blame the author for failing to foresee a more tolerant time.More confusingly, she doesn't seem to understand the actual definition of a word in the very title of her book! Every single time she has used the word 'orgasm' in her first 34 pages, she has meant 'orgasm during PIV intercourse.' Which produces just ludicrous results, and I quote - p24 'I could make myself come as many times as I liked when I was on my own.' p25 [Yes, the very next page!] 'however long my partner was able to continue, I knew that orgasm was a long way away. I was, I realized bleakly, one of those women who would never have an orgasm.' p33 'If you've never had an orgasm... you have a ''primary dysfunction''... In my case when I began my self-help program, I was resoundingly ''primary''.No, that is not what primary anorgasmia is! It is never having had an orgasm at all, and the author stated on page 24 that she had no trouble having orgasms from masturbation! Maybe there is a twist in the story and the author will explain later how she realised she had completely failed to understand the definition of the word in her youth. But from what I've read so far I doubt it.Luckily this copy cost me less than £2!

This book is a permission giving book. Swift opens the way to embark upon a journey of self discovery. She reminds us that it's good to figure out exactly what brings you into your orgasmic potential...what precise physical and technical requirements you have...it's a manual, a textbook for learning a new skill. That's how she approaches the subject, saying that women have been taught passivity in sex due to the mixed messages of our cultures and religions and now we must learn how to have an orgasm in the same way that we would learn how to become fluent in a new language.This book has carried me forwards and I have enjoyed the journey, but I still have questions and blocks that were not covered in the book. Her chapter on fantasy was not extensive enough. I want to learn how to be orgasmic during masturbation and sex without relying on fantasy. She suggests to make the fantasy interweave with the reality of the sexual situation. She calls it a "blended fantasy", to successfully combine fantasy and reality and that the ultimate sophistication is for you and your partner to indulge in mutual fantasies".I was disappointed that she didn't go deeper into the "how" at this point.I realised that my research and evolutionary sexual experiences need to follow a Tantric path. But I do recommend this book. It has some good research in it, some interesting facts about the differences between male and female orgasm and animal and human orgasms. And it is very encouraging. I found that I could orgasm in a lot more positions and situations than I had imagined possible.

EXCELLENT

Started out being helpful to me but for my taste became somewhat too liberal in its direction. Some may not think so...

Ok