The Gift of Fear Paperback – 1 August 2000

I would recommend this to be read by everyone. Being a parent, I was able to relate to many things written in the book

Really informative book. Though addressed to women, equally relevant to men. Deep insight into the minds of ordinary persons who choose violence. Lot of tips on how to handle stalkers, assassins domestic violence...

Good packaging, was bubble wrapped and had invoice inside the book. So far the content that I read, I found it good.Could have used a bookmark but that's not a problem. Would have given 5 stars if text font was one size bigger.

Interesting, well paced, informative.

"The Gift of Fear" is one of the few books everybody has to read. It explains fear well, separating it from anxiety, worry and other things we mistake for fear. This book will help people react to dangerous situations in a better way and teach them to listen to their intuition instead of burying it.

Book discusses everyday violence filled events in easy language to share valuable lessons so world can be better place. My sincere thanks to author.

Good book thus far. The concept is to use your intuition when you feel the emotion of fear. Our intuition is what keeps us safe and fear itself is not meant to be feared but rather as a gift/guide

This book is a must read, especially for teens & young women.. although in this day and time, women and men of any age, including seniors, should give this a read. I won't try to describe the topic, I'll leave that to the author's description. I absolutely recommend this to everyone, especially the women in your life, if personal safety and good decision making is something you care about. DeBecker also has some great YouTube videos on this that are well worth the watch.

Apenas lo empece a leer y debo decir que es adictivo, casi sin darte cuenta pasas capítulo tras capítulo. El escritor explica las cosas fácilmente y pone ejemplos sencillos y cotidianos. La verdad que el regalo del miedo es un imprescindible para las mujeres que vivimos en entornos violentos (casi toda america latina y por lo que leí EUA).

Das Buch ist sehr gut geschrieben und sehr interessant. Es ist hilfreich und für jeden zu empfehlen.

“The Gift of Fear” by Gavin de Becker is a compelling and thought provoking book that delves into the realm of personal safety and intuition. It challenges conventional wisdom by arguing that fear, often dismissed or suppressed, can be a valuable gift that can protect us from harm if we learn to listen to it.One of the key takeaways from the book is the importance of trusting out intuition. De Becker emphasises that intuition is not a mystical or supernatural force but a collection of our subconscious observations and experiences. He provides numerous real-life examples and case studies to illustrate instances where individuals ignored their gut feelings and paid the price.Throughout the book de Becker explores the concept of pre-incident indicators. These are warning signals that, if recognised and heeded, can help us identify potential threats or dangerous situations before they escalate. By understanding these indicators, readers are empowered to assess their surroundings and make informed decisions about their personal safety.De Becker also sheds light on the mindset of predators and the tactics they employ. He explains that predators often rely on manipulation, charm, and the element of surprise to gain control over their victims. By understanding their strategies, readers can learn to recognise these tactics and avoid falling into their traps.One of the most valuable aspects of the book is the practical advice and strategies it offers for enhancing personal safety. De Becker emphasises the importance of situational awareness, teaching readers to be alert and observant of their surroundings. He provides techniques for assessing potential threats, setting boundaries, and using verbal and non-verbal cues to deter potential attackers.“The Gift of Fear” goes beyond physical self-defence techniques and focuses on the psychological and situational aspects of personal safety. While it doesn’t provide an exhaustive guide to self-defence, it equips readers with the knowledge and tools to make better decisions and take appropriate action to ensure their safety.What sets the book apart is its ability to strike a balance between empowering readers and instilling a sense of caution. De Becker acknowledges that while fear can be a powerful tool, it should not paralyse us or prevent us from leading fulfilling lives. He encourages readers to embrace their fear and use it as motivation to take proactive measures to protect themselves.By reading “The Gift of Fear” you can benefit in several ways: 1. Increased Awareness: The book helps you become more aware of potential dangers and threats in your environment. It teaches you to recognise warning signs and trust your intuition.2. Enhanced Personal Safety: You will learn practical strategies and techniques to improve your personal safety and protect yourself from harm.3. Empowerment: The book aims to empower readers by giving them the knowledge and tools to navigate potentially dangerous situations confidently.4. Improved Decision- Making: “The Gift of Fear” can help you make better decisions in situations involving personal safety. By understanding the dynamics of fear and intuition, you can respond more effectively and avoid unnecessary risks.5. Self-Defence: The book doesn’t focus on physical self-defence techniques but rather on the psychological and situational aspects of personal safety. However, it can complement other self-defence training by providing valuable insights into the minds of predators.I hope this review helps you in your decision to buy the book. One other point I bought a physical copy of the book, then a kindle version. I prefer the kindle version because the print in the physical book was very small and hard on the eyes.I got a lot from this book and I hope you will enjoy it. Stay safe and well. - Martin Acton